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Tips on looking after your mental health this festive season 2023

As the year draws to a close, Prof John Sharry, Co-Founder and Clinical Director of SilverCloud® by Amwell® and Adjunct Professor at the School of Psychology in University College Dublin,shares some tips to help us look after our mental health and well-being during the festive season. 

Accept your feelings

feelingsIt is important to notice and accept your feelings. Rather than denying your stresses or repressing your feelings, take time to notice and listen to them. Some days you will feel fine but on others you might feel fed up, anxious, or depressed. That is all OK.

Reach out for support

supportRemember that you are not alone. Reaching out to others to talk about what you are experiencing or to simply socialise and chat is the best way to boost your mental health and well-being.

Make a plan

Make-a-planMake a plan for each day as well as each week. Set a couple of goals you want to achieve each day and a couple of things you would like to have done by the end of each week. Make sure to include enjoyable things that you find relaxing such as reading a favourite book, playing music, cooking a new meal, or listening to an interesting podcast.

Make a plan for the festive season

Plan-festiveRather than just focusing on what you have lost or what is different about the festive season this year, make a plan to do nice things. Plan new rituals and celebrations with your family and friends that keep within public health guidelines.

Be creative about how you celebrate

creative-celebrateWe might have to do things differently this year but we can still celebrate during the festive season. Perhaps you can organise a special Christmas walk with your family or an outdoor street party with neighbours or an online ‘gift opening party’ for friends who can’t physically travel.

Think about how you can help others

helpIn crises, it is the people who help others who cope the best. Ring an elderly neighbour or a frontline worker to see if they need anything when you go shopping. Get your children to prepare a festive hamper and leave it on the doorstep of a family in need.

Make the most of mealtimes

nutritionHealthy eating is important to your well-being and mealtimes are important times of connection in families. Make the most of these times and take time to enjoy preparing meals. Over the festive season are there new recipes you would like to try that allow you to express your creativity?


Include exercise in your day

good-healthIf you can, make sure to get out for a walk or a run each day. A bit of fresh air and exercise will make all the difference to your well-being. If stuck indoors, focus on doing indoor bouts of exercise, such as press-ups, squats or yoga stretches. Take a moment to stand at an open window or on a balcony to breathe.

Practice gratitude

gratitudeEach evening take a moment to note something good that happened that day that you are grateful. This could be as simple as a pleasant chat with a colleague, friend or neighbour. As well as the challenges, there may be some ‘silver linings’ to the challenges of this year. Perhaps it has provided you with time to slow down and to do new things.

Keep a journal

journalKeep a journal each evening. Take a break from the screens and use a pen to write and reflect on your experiences each day. The simple act of writing can help you put your experiences into context and can be enormously satisfying. You can also use your journal to begin to make plans and set some goals for a better year in 2021.


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